Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Christmas Redeemed



Christmas Redeemed
     Phone calls in the middle of the night seldom bring any good news. So, when the clanging of the phone awakened our family in the wee hours of a Monday morning in early December 1969, we knew something was terribly wrong. My maternal grandmother frantically delivered the news that Grandpa was seriously ill and needed to be transported to the hospital. His illness turned out to be a particularly virulent form of diverticulitis requiring major surgery and an exceedingly long hospital stay. A shadow was cast over the coming Christmas celebration, but He who came to redeem our souls works in our lives even to redeem sad situations.   
      Grandpa’s surgery had been successful, and a temporary colostomy was in place, but he still faced a lengthy recovery. After spending long days at the hospital, Grandma usually came home with us rather than returning to her rambling house in downtown Winston-Salem. It seemed to ease the emptiness and fear for everyone. Staying with us especially helped her pass those long nights of uncertainty; even though we knew the One who had sent His Son to redeem us from sin could work in all things-even Grandpa’s life-threatening illness.
       Christmas evening was no exception; however, on this particular night, we had a few extra people joining us. My aunt, uncle and two cousins had stopped by the house since they had been visiting Grandpa in the hospital. Despite the circumstances, my parents attempted to create a festive mood conducive to fellowship and relaxation, just as they had they had earlier in the day for our immediate family. Dad had a roaring fire going in the fireplace; the Christmas tree was lit. We had enjoyed a light snack, featuring Mom’s spiced tea. Yet, a spirit of weariness hung over the gathering.
       In attempt to bring cheer to the seemingly sad and obviously weary adults, we three cousins got together with an impromptu re-enacting of the Christmas story. Our indulgent parents and grandmother, encouraging our creativity, graciously endured our play as we acted out each scene and sang the usual Christmas carols, often a little off-key, but with great fervor. Unfortunately the entire play unraveled when the director attempted to lead the Magi to the manger rather than to the family dwelling place. At that point one of the cousins stopped the play dead in its tracks with the words, “Stop, they didn’t go the manger.”
         Moments later we erupted into in a family discussion concerning the Christmas story that resulted in my seventy-year-old grandmother having to be convinced concerning Biblical accuracy. At that point neither the cast nor the audience could contain their mirth. Not only had three children acted in innocent confusion trying to bring joy to their parents, but a seventy-year-old woman learned truth for the first time in her life even though she had at first exclaimed, “Aw, I don’t believe it!  They ‘come’ when He was in the manger.”
      God was good; we were joyful.  Grandpa was on the road to recovery, albeit a slow recovery. It had been good Christmas after all.
       I believe it shows that truly as the lyrics of the song reveal, “Nothing is wasted in the hands of our Redeemer:”[1] no laughter no tears and certainly no pain.  In His hands they are tools for His glory and the healing of the hearts of His children.


Bibliography
Gray, Jason.  “Song of the Week: Jason Gray -'Nothing is Wasted' (Remix).”  The Rabbit Room.  February 12, 2013. Accessed May 26, 2013. http://www.rabbitroom.com/2013/02/song-of-the-week-jason-gray-nothing-is-wasted-remix/.


[1] Jason Gray, “Song of the Week: Jason Gray -'Nothing is Wasted' (Remix),” The Rabbit Room, February 12, 2013, accessed May 26, 2013, http://www.rabbitroom.com/2013/02/song-of-the-week-jason-gray-nothing-is-wasted-remix/.












Thursday, December 11, 2014

Jaguar!



Jaguar!
       Today a fine dog died. She had suffered with congestive heart failure for over a year. This afternoon she went to sleep and never woke up. Jaguar was special to us; she and my dad had formed a special bond. She was not our dog, but she belonged to neighbors who shared her freely.  There were  numerous sleepovers as is evidenced by this picture.  Jaguar was a joy bringer; she made my dad happy.  They shared numerous Ritz cracker bed time snacks on those sleepover nights – those were before she was diagnosed with congestive heart failure.  

 Jaguar felt deeply she had a special friendship with an elderly neighbor, that my dad had helped forge.  This neighbor and his wife kept a jar of animal crackers just for Jaguar.  Daddy would take Jaguar to their house where he taught her to announce herself by barking at the door.  He would also insist that Jag bark her thanks for the cookies.  Jaguar would amuse us all by rolling around on the carpet. Yes, she was spoiled there and allowed on the couch.  Jaguar could work her way into the hearts of anyone who truly loved dogs.  

When our neighbor passed away, Jaguar grieved with the rest of us.  As soon as she arrived at their house, she would run to the bedroom – looking for him.  Looking back it was what we call foreshadowing.  Jaguar was affectionately known as “Therapy Dog,” because she brought so much happiness to people who seemed to be hurting.  As Daddy struggled with health concerns of his own, Jaguar became a frequent companion. 
Then in May, 2012 the unthinkable happened; Daddy was in ICU for many days and was then transferred to Palliative Care. We managed to get Jaguar in to see him on the last of his life – what a joyful reunion. After Daddy passed away, Jaguar would search the house for him and the bed.  I would try to reason with her that he wasn’t coming back.  When I moved to a smaller unit, Jag seemed to accept it was just me.  Jag loved my cooking – that’s more than I can say for me; she ate most of my rejects.  Jaguar was a true friend.  One of our last times together I had an asthma attack, and she followed me as I tried to regain my breath. Even as she was weakening, she remembered that she was Therapy Dog!  The Thursday before she died, we went to the Festival of Lights and of course we took Jag who was enthralled with them. I explained the various displays to her. It was a great memory. Today Jaguar lay down to take a nap and never woke up.  Her passing was peaceful, and her owners were spared the painful decision that many with ill pets have to make.  Her passing did call to mind the passing of  Mom and Daddy – peaceful and in their sleep.  Yes, God is good even as we count our losses.